single or married?

sometimes we are confuse that should i stay single or get married.

if i stay single,i cn freely travel with freinds maybe with their familes.u will think tat i wish i cn go alone with u on a trip.but u can't put down ur family for a few days cos ur friends will think for their familes even thought their in a vacation.do anything u wan to do.no nid to have a burden in ur heart cos u no nid to be scare of tis and tat.

but when i'm old,no one will put on blanket for me,maybe friends nia.if they also didn't married la. haha.lol.when u go out will ur friends who are married,i might see them ask their to keep quiet,bit them,feed them and stufff.i might see their face start to become rough,start to have wringles.unless they keep maintain it.maybe lose their figures too.complain abt their husband,familes,hav to think a long time before they buy a thing like personal things.cos they will think of their kids frist,then husband lastly themselves.

if i get married,i gt someone by my side to care for me,loved me put on blanket for me at nite when the weather is cold.when i'm old,i gt someone to accompany to take care of me when i'm sick,gt all sort of illness.but i might lose my figure,hav rough hand,alot of wrinkes if i don't maintain it.do i hav to do it.wad if i married until a man who have viloence action,gamble,or an discreet affair with other women?

wad if i get married or be a single parent,do i have enough money to take care of him when he r sick,homework.cos i will be working everyday jus to provide my child for school,living expense,allowance etc.wad if the child thinks tat my mother doesn't care abt me,only hw to work,where is my father amd stuff.

this is my view la.

there are many benefit bening a singl or married.on the other hand there also other many disavantage or being a single or married.up to u to choose which catogeries u wan to be.as for me i might be under single catogeries. haha. can't stand it la. dunno why.maybe i gt phopia in marriage.cos my parents are divorce.maybe tats the reason i like being alone with friends.and my mother keep discouraing abt me.

my friends are important to me.so,i treat my friends better than my familes.

so i will write more later.